Planning an intimate wedding is a unique and meaningful experience that allows couples to focus on the essence of their love and the cherished presence of close family and friends. For those dreaming of a charming celebration in the heart of the Cotswolds, look no further than Pauntley Court, the perfect setting to create unforgettable memories. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you plan for your intimate wedding.
1. Set Your Guest List
The guest list is crucial for an intimate wedding. At Pauntley Court, up to 32 people can join the celebration, with 24 guests accommodated on-site in luxurious bedrooms for two nights. Begin by identifying your must-have attendees, including immediate family and close friends. Keeping the guest list tight fosters a warm and personal atmosphere, ensuring everyone feels included and valued.
2. Choose a Meaningful Venue
The venue sets the tone for your day, and choosing a place that aligns with your vision is essential. Pauntley Court offers a blend of historic charm and modern luxury. Every corner is picture-perfect, from the magical Hornbeam Arches to the elegant Ballroom and tranquil Walled Garden. Consider whether you prefer an outdoor ceremony in one of the many magical garden rooms or a cosy indoor service in the Panelled Room or the elegant Ballroom.
For couples seeking a spiritual touch, the nearby St. John the Evangelist Church is just a stroll away. It offers a picturesque setting for a church wedding.
3. Personalise Your Ceremony
One benefit of a smaller wedding is the ability to add personal touches to the ceremony. Whether you opt for a civil, celebrant-led, or religious service, take time to reflect on what resonates with you as a couple. Incorporate readings, music, or symbolic rituals that reflect your journey and values.
When you come for your tour of the venue with Melissa, she can tell you all about the different spaces for your ceremony and how you can wow your guests as there are multiple places to choose from at Pauntley, both in the spectacular gardens and inside the beautiful house.
4. Plan a Delightful Reception
Your reception is where the magic continues, with incredible outdoor dining options or the fantastic Ballroom if the weather is not so clement.
At Pauntley Court, you can choose from four exceptional wedding caterers to craft a bespoke menu that delights your guests. Consider hosting drinks and canapés in the gardens using our wonderful alfresco bar and parasol or under the stretch tent before indulging in a wedding breakfast under the hornbeam arches or in the stunning Ballroom.
Keep the focus on quality over quantity by selecting a menu featuring fresh, seasonal, and locally sourced ingredients. A smaller guest list allows for creative dishes and curated drink pairings that will leave a lasting impression.
5. Choose a Stunning Décor Scheme
Intimate weddings are an opportunity to let your creativity shine. The natural beauty at Pauntley Court provides a breathtaking backdrop, but you can enhance the ambience with thoughtful décor. Fresh flowers, candles, and personal mementoes can transform spaces into romantic havens. Consider incorporating the venue’s history and surroundings into your theme, such as garden-inspired centrepieces or locally sourced quinces as part of the décor.
Melissa and your wedding coordinator can help you with your ideas and provide supplier suggestions to help bring your vision to life.
6. Capture the Moment
Hiring a professional photographer is essential for preserving the memories of your day. At Pauntley Court, our expansive grounds offer endless opportunities for stunning photos, from the serene lake and boathouse to the heavenly gardens with their incredible views across the Gloucestershire countryside. Work with your photographer to plan key moments and locations, ensuring you capture the beauty and intimacy of the celebration.
7. Make It a Weekend Affair
Extend the joy by turning your wedding into a weekend celebration. When you stay at Pauntley Court, couples can arrive from Thursday afternoon with guests arriving on Friday where they can settle into their luxurious accommodation and enjoy pre-wedding activities like croquet, pétanque, or a relaxing massage in the Shepherd’s Hut. The weekend experience allows for deeper connections and creates a series of cherished memories beyond the wedding day itself.
After the wedding day, host a relaxed Sunday brunch under the stretch tent or amidst the quince trees, reminiscing about the wedding day’s highlights with your loved ones. Have Rachel, our amazing housekeeper, cook this for you and ensure that everyone relaxes and enjoys a lazy Sunday, laughing and chatting about the Wedding Day.
If you would like to hear more about our intimate wedding packages, please contact us at 01531 552001 or get in touch with Melissa via email. Alternatively, you can book a viewing via Melissa’s Calendly calendar here.
8. Curate an Intimate Atmosphere
With fewer guests, every interaction becomes more meaningful. Emphasise the personal touch by including handwritten notes for each guest, offering welcome hampers with local treats, or customising the menu with their dietary preferences. Our team, including the dedicated wedding coordinator, ensures that every detail is thoughtfully planned, creating an effortlessly warm and inviting atmosphere.
9. Prepare for the Unexpected
Even small weddings can face unforeseen challenges. Working with a venue like Pauntley Court means you’ll have expert support from a wedding coordinator. They’ll help you navigate planning details, coordinate with suppliers, and ensure your day runs smoothly from start to finish.
10. Enjoy Every Moment
Finally, remember that an intimate wedding is about celebrating your love in a way that feels authentic to you. Take time to savour the moments, whether it’s wandering hand-in-hand through the gardens or dancing the night away in the Ballroom. The smaller scale allows you to be present and truly enjoy the company of your closest loved ones.
An intimate wedding at Pauntley Court is more than a celebration—it’s an experience that brings people together in a meaningful way. With careful planning, thoughtful details, and the venue’s enchanting setting, you’ll create memories to treasure for a lifetime.
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